I miss him

Oh wow ...ok i didnt know where to start. i am writing this again after being so busy much with life and trying to turn my fate into something really good. The last time i tried writing about him, it has been two years !!! and now its suddenly six years since my last post!!! Definitely sooooo much has happened. i just want to write about this special person whom i met sometime back in 2016. a person who does not judge. kind cocky a bit of a liar but definitely very hot and horny. but now i know that he is a good judge of character. found his girl on the same blog and realised that they are so made for each other. so busy with sex and multiple partners and the lying...yes the lying to each other. god knows. so i kind of know him for 4 years now. but i realise that i dont really know him. kinda my fault. coz i told him that its better to remain as strangers rather than as friends. but he knows so much about...where i live where i work what i work as my age the fact that im married but im gay.... well dont get me wrong i know what hes working as its just these few mysteries still surrounding me 1. How old is he really ? i saw in his ig stories that he will celebrate his birthday on 24 dec. but his ID is really 24 nov. and he told me that hes born on 1996. but his id says that hes born in 1991. even my friends told me that he doesnt look that young. 2. Where does he live and who with ? He lives in a mansion i know. but he will never tell me. he will just say hdb. maybe humility ? and i see a whole bunch of people living with him...and they are cute !!! he told me that its his cousin ? i really dont buy it. and i dont really see his parents though. he told me hes living with them but i dont see them in his ig stories ...oklah maybe the time when he brought his mom to work to watch a concert or sth (while he is working and also a wedding of a colleague where he had no plus one) .... oh yes ...interesting fact ...he likes to walk around in his underwear at home... so his sisters will see and maid ...but they are used to it...he is living in the same room with his cousin?...and they both see each other naked all the time ...and he watches his cousin masturbate too ....slaps forehead i know....sounds like hes really utterly shameless...just like some vietnamese men i know on twitter .... 3. why is he just so adorable ? people love him !!! but he doesnt really enjoy having company around. he likes being alone. gyms alone. suntans alone. swims alone. but when it comes to dinner ...he will choose his "most favourite woman" or his friend jiahao .... i dont see him hanging around P anymore because of that incident which i refuse to acknowledge again (maybe) ...slaps forehead .... 4. which uni was he from and did he quit or graduated ? i found out from someone on grindr that this guy knows himd. he claims that he was in uni but left to pursue diploma in events management in rp. but im just wondering ...why did he quit ? which uni was he from and why poly ? 5. is he gay or bisexual ? he did tell me about his first sexual encounter with a woman. i hope its not a lie. its with a prostitute in geylang. she's thai and he said that she even gave him a free blowjob without condom. so i said oh that means she likes u ? he said maybe. some years down the road , he told me about his gay encounter. he said that he was in a crowded train when this man told was touching his dick and he let him because he said it felt nice. then when he alighted at buona vista , this man followed him and then caught him and offered him money to touch him again. so he said they went to the mrt toilet and "did some stuff" which he did not say what. he is also on grindr. and lying again...he said that he is not. i have seen his face on grindr a few times already and then the location is quite accurate. when he is at my place ...it will say like 1 m or some shit...which i find really annoying.... further to this story, has been coming to my place quite a number of times already. so far it was all massage and me bj-ing him. the bj was tense and so far there was no anal yet. that brings me to another mystery ... 6. why wont he fuck me ? he claims that he doesnt like ass. he says that even w his gf he will not fuck her there.